I have a very big family, which brings us closer actually. Some may say that living in a big family sometimes burden the members as they will have to share like almost everything, the don't really have some sort of privacy and whatnot. But for me, the term of sharing really does show about how much we care and mind about the others.
Me myself have five girls, and three boys in a family, yeahh super huge ! And honestly it was awesome so far. We do fight and quarrel and stuff, *I may be lying if I say we don't, but it wont really last for a long time. And the causes of the fight are basically the normal things. You know stuff like ;
1.Wehhh, sepah la bilik aku, kemas balik ( you know when someone uses someone else's room )
2. Curi perfumeeeeeee, make up etc.
3. Gadoh rebot remote Astro
4. Pinjam barang tak cakap and whatnot.
And I know, my sisters are all always bengang at me, because I love to curik their barangs without informing them first, but yeahh hello, they do it too, so seri, no big deal. Hello sissyS, we share almost everything right ;) You know I even wear my brothers' boxers, and yeahh always got scolded too, but I dont care HAHA.
And if I were about to tell about my parents, there is no other words except perfect.
Ayah, he is a very strict as a ruler, of course. He takes a very good control of money, OF COURSE. Mintak duit from Ayah is a torture, seriouslyy. Have to do this, do that baru dapat. But that's life I guess, nothing's free. He takes a really good care of the household, and even the chores. He can clean, cook, laundry and whatnot. But one thing he does not know to control. His interest towards Mini cars, you know those tiny little cars. If you guys datang to my house, you can see at the back side of our house we have like the whole complete set of things you will find in a workshop. The jet, the compressor, the you name it. He can literally disattached and reattached the parts, using the things that he has. And one thing that we keep on complaining about is that, he has the parts all over the house, 360 degrees I tell you, no kidding Man -..- All bersepah. This is the only thing, spoil huh? But overall he's cool.
Mak, she's a type that does not really care. Even if the rumah is in a disastrous mess, she cares, but she will only tell you once like ' kemas lahh rumah '. And not twice or thrice. You knoww stuff like, you chose it that way, suka hati laa. But indeed, I know that she likes and appreciates things like if you kemas the rumah, cook the dinner, do the laundry. In nature, Mom does not really ask for help, but she wants to be helped. Like having kids that boleh harap, and not letting it all on her shoulders. Plus, how can a kid let the Mother does all the chores? I mean hello common sense. Next, I am gonna admit that I got stress so easily and then I feel so uneasy and my confidence level will just drop. And this is the time that I'll call my Mak. She is very good in handling the stress out me. You know things like when I am worned out because of exams, and I am crying like there is no tomorrow. And things like I screwed my test and whatnot. I'll just call and menangis like crazy, and I can that just hearing to her voice is calming enough, that motherly sound. The advice she gives does not really help, but yeahh it just feel better to have been able to share. One thing I might advice you guys, never ever call your Dad when you are stress, you will just get scolded for being too weak. SERIOUSLY -..-
So to those who like to complain about the family, like I have a very cruel brothers and sisters, just be cruel back and you will get rhythm. Try it :P
The familia,
Till then :)
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